Sunday, February 12, 2012

Let's Play Catch-Up





Dax has grown up and changed A LOT over the past few months!
He is very intelligent, as well as independent and headstrong these days.
He LOVES to sing the Itsy-Bitsy Spider and Bumblebee song.
He can count to three all by himself.
He is pooping on the potty.
He can identify ALL of his numbers, shapes, colors, and animals and their sounds.
He can also find his own name! Which is pretty incredible!
I would have to guess that he is able to say nearly 100 different words and is able to produce simple sentences, as well as follow simple commands.
If he struggles to communicate, he will just drag me along by my index finger and show me what he wants or is trying to tell me about. It's pretty adorable.
He adores preschool and even has a set of friends. He will shout all of their names when we tell him it is time for school. His favorite person (aside from me) is his cousin, HAA-EEE!
Reading is still one of his favorite activities. His favorite books these days involve trains, or CHOO-CHOOS! Especially Dinosaur Train, that involves TWO of his favorite things!
Helen is becoming his other best friend. We dogsat her the past weekend, training for when we adopt her, and he was very upset when he awoke from his nap and she was gone.
In order to make him feel better we had to put a Helen shirt on. That did the trick.
He is also obsessed with keys. He knows that they mean "bye-bye" and he likes to try to unlock doors with them. We had to collect all of our useless keys and make him his own set so as to ensure that our keys wouldn't get lost.
His name baby cousin, Marley Nicole, was also born last week. He was so excited to see her. He shouted "BABY!!!" all day after we showed him a picture of her and told him we were going to see her. He was upset that he couldn't actually play with her though. It was funny.
Life is pretty enjoyable these days! Busy, but wonderful!

Saturday, November 5, 2011

Picture Overload!

Life has been a little nuts since school started.
I am currently teaching Honor's English at Irving Middle School everyday and LOVING it!
This week I find out where I will be student teaching. I am pretty excited!
Now....
To get to the real reason you all even bother to read this blog:


This was Dax's first time holding a ladybug. He was really excited.
And then he squished it trying to share with mama.
We pretended to let it fly away. He was still happy.

He's pretty much the only reason I write this anyway.
I could, literally, talk any person's ear off bragging about this kid.
He is, without a doubt, my proudest accomplishment. He amazes me daily.
Especially lately, he has learned/is learning so much from Mrs. Kate at the Goose.
He knows the color yellow and the sign for yellow, as well as brown.
He can say the others with help.
He is on and off with shapes, but is pretty consistent with circle, oval, and square.
He will show me oval with his mouth, which is one of the tricks that Katie has taught him.
He loves animals and making animal sounds. Cow is "MMMM," sheep is "AAAAAAA," dog is "Uff, ruff, ruff," horse is "NNAAY," pig is a "sniff, sniff," duck is "QACK, QACK," and chicken is "AWK, AWK." His favorite sound to do is the cow. But his favorite animal is definitely the dog.
In fact, his favorite book to read right now is "Harry the Dirty Dog."
He LOVES it. We read it at least three times each morning.
He even says "Arry! Uff, uff!" It makes my heart melt just thinking about it.
Dax has also become quite the little clean freak lately.
He gets really excited to help me clean. This morning he decided to take over the mopping.
He mopped every floor in the house, including the carpeted floors.
He was very proud of himself and received much applause and high-fiving for his efforts.
His biggest pet peeve is opened doors or trash can lids. He will slam them shut defiantly if they are left open. One issue with all of this cleaning is that, even at daycare, toys and other objects left strewn about the floor WILL end up in the garbage.
There is a note about it at daycare:
Teachers,
Make sure to check garbages before emptying them. Daxton likes to throw things in the garbage. Toys, socks, shoes, jackets, etc...
Oh boy. Ryan and Katie say he gets it from me.
:)
Along with learning educational bits of information, Dax is learning all types of new tricks.
He receives lots of laughs for showing off his muscles!
He gets the biggest grin on his face and shouts "Um-oms!" whenever he flexes.
He even applauds himself for doing it.
His biggest obsession lately is "CHOOO-CHOOOOS!"
A family donated a $1,000 Thomas the Train set to Mother Goose a month ago and trains have found there way into Dax's heart.
He loves to roll them around on the ground and on his mama and shrill "Choo-choo!"
One problem: he is not good about sharing his trains. He's been caught a couple of times stealing trains from other kids at the Goose. But they all like him so much they just let him take them.
Dax has officially been declared the most popular kid at Mother Goose.
The kids love him. Almost too much at times.
But who can complain about their child being over-loved? By kids and teachers alike.
I am soo grateful to have him at Mother Goose.
Who else gets daily picture updates from their daycare provider?!
Thanks, Katie!
Under the blue Hurley jacket is Dax's Thomas the Train jacket he got from Grandma Tracey.
It's his favorite, of course.
And it broke last week, of course.
But, could we get rid of it? Of course not.
The zipper broke off, but when we tried to put another jacket on him would not have it.
He even likes to just walk around the house with his Thomas jacket on.
This was yesterday, the first snowfall of the winter.
When we looked outside and I told him about how it was cold he demanded his jackets and hat.
But felt pants were unnecessary.
He trounced around the house like this for an hour.

He can say nearly fifty different things these days, including people's names.
It amazes me.
One of his favorite things to do is pick up different pictures around the house and then point to the people in the pictures and say their names. Dada is his favorite person to find.
Cousin Hallee is his favorite person, period. Well, aside from me.
Which makes me feel like a million bucks!
I live for Fridays. Those are my only early days of the week.
I always rush from class to pick him up and then we come home and literally cuddle on the couch reading and playing and eating until Ryan comes home.
It's the best.
Then I get to spend the next two days doing the same thing!
It's the only thing that's getting me through the week and the mound of homework accompanied with weekdays.

Halloween was interesting this year.
Definitely not what I was hoping it would be.
But from his birthday, Easter, Fourth of July, and now Halloween I have learned to accept that I should have the lowest expectations for holiday behavior.
We wanted to paint a beard on Dax for Halloween because we were dressing him up at Paul Bunyan and we were going to paint Helen blue.
However, the beard was a disaster.
And Helen, the poor deaf dog, was not digging being painted.
So, instead, Dax was just another lumberjack.
Ryan and I felt bad because at the daycare Halloween party/parade he looked like he hadn't even dressed up.
He did have an axe that went with his costume.
However, he only liked to play with it and hold it for a couple of minutes. And then he would get bored.
He did enjoy "CHOP, CHOP!" chopping the walls and tables.
And his mama. He still likes chopping around the house.
Next year we have decided to go all out in order to make up for it.
Halloween was still fun, nonetheless.
After visiting my mom and Ryan's parents we came home.
Dax helped pass out candy.
He was the official lid holder for the candy jar, greeter of the trick-or-treaters, and door closer once the candy was handed out.
He loved seeing the kids. From Mother Goose he is convinced that every kid alive is around to play with him. He gets really excited whenever he sees a kid coming near him.
Even though it did not go according to my plan, Dax enjoyed Halloween and that's all that matters.

He is teaching me A LOT of lessons lately.
Such as patience.
The life of a toddler is filled with fits.
And, of course, from daycare he has picked up some pretty gnarly fit throwing techniques.
We are doing our best to kick those as quickly as possible.
C'est la vie of a parent, right?!

I wouldn't trade it, or him, for ANYTHING.



Saturday, July 30, 2011

A Week of Firsts

Dax's 1st First of the Week: On Wednesday morning after I gave Dax his goodbye kiss and was walking to my car yelling "I love you Dax" he waved his limp little hand and shouted "La youuu!" I teared up on the spot. My baby finally said the words I have been so eager to hear, the words I utter to him at least one hundred times a day. While he says 'I love you' to me numerous times a day with a kiss, hug, cuddle, smile, or squeal of delight when he sees me after a long day away...nothing could ever compare to actually hearing him declare it. I cried the whole way to work. It was by far one of the most feel good moments I have experienced as a parent so far.
Dax's 2nd First of the Week: On Wednesday Dax tripped while running around outside of his great-grandma and Papa's house, resulting in his first skinned knee. According to the witnesses, he didn't even cry but stood up and kept on running around. That's my tough little man.
The 3rd First of the Week: Dax started coming to Mother Goose! It is only one day a week for a couple of hours, Thursday mornings, and will hopefully help him transition better once he starts coming full time on August 22nd.

The 4th First of the Week: This won't be happening until tomorrow evening, however, Ryan and I accidentally had a scheduling problem (his fault, not mine.) I have had a "girls' night" away from home planned for over a month, in which Dax was supposed to stay behind with his father, however, Ryan was unable to schedule his brother's out-of-town bachelor party until this weekend. Long story short, Dax will be having his first official sleepover this Saturday at Grandma Kathleen's. Now he has slept at other places before but always with mom and dad and he has even slept at home without mom and dad (but with Grandma Tracey instead) so it will be his first ever sleepover. I can't believe it!!!

My baby boy is growing up so fast!!!

Monday, July 11, 2011

Mr. Sandman


We took a little family trip to Ontario, California a couple of weeks ago.


Long story short: Dax loved the beach.

Friday, June 24, 2011

Book Smart

Beginning the day Ryan and I found out what gender our baby was going to be on Nov. 13th, 2009 I have been writing letters and collecting memorabilia about everything related to Dax. The letters are addressed to him and the artifacts range from a paper containing every family member's guess on his birth weight and height to his doctor visit growth charts to the first picture he and I ever colored.
Ultimately I plan on presenting these in scrapbook form to him and his future wife when they are expecting their first child- I also plan to do this for each of my children. I think it might be an unique way of providing advice and first hand insight on special moments shared between me and my babies that I won't be able to relate so well 20+ years later.
Up until this week I have simply been gathering the letters and artifacts in several boxes, kind of in chronological order, under my bed. Then, on Monday evening I decided to begin a venture in SCRAPBOOKING!
The kitchen was a disaster! Papers, pictures, scissors, books, plastic covers, glue, scraps, stickers, and boxes littered my kitchen table and stools until yesterday evening. I am not saying that I gave up on the scrapbook, but I realized that it will not be conquered in a week- as I initially thought- and it was a severe safety hazard for such things to be out in the open with that busybody toddler of mine. (We did keep the kitchen well cordoned off from his curious, grabby hands but it became too much of a battle.) Thus, the scrapbook materials were neatly and safely put away in their boxes and reappear each night as I continue my hand at scrapbooking!
A consistent theme each night as I dig through the pictures, letters, and artifacts is one of nostalgia. Don't get me wrong, I love my little family today and am still amazed by my son and his development. However, I miss my new, tiny, helpless baby. The one that would actually snuggle with me for hours, the one that depended on me for sustenance, the one whose eyes would grow wide and whose mouth would turn up each and every time I spoke or sung to him, and I also miss that little baby who was also willing to snuggle with his other family members.
Nowadays, Dax only snuggles with me when he is sick or drinking on his sippy, he won't eat anything I try to feed him- he has to rip it from my hand and feed himself- he still lights up every time he sees me in the morning and after work, however, he refuses to leave my side for a minimum of thirty minutes whenever we are around other people. I love that he is growing and becoming more and more capable of informing me on his desires and problems, however, I can tell that the toddler years are going to be tough around the Matthews' household. Wish me luck, both in the scrapbooking and toddler department.

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

The Current Weather in Idaho...

is really making me miss the Caribbean, it's just not right to go from swimming suits to sweaters in a matter of days.



But, I must admit, nothing beats being back at home with my favorite little person.


Wednesday, April 27, 2011

One Year

Just a point of reference of growth in this year, here is Dax's buddy Nixon and himself from last year and this year....thankfully, Katelin and I have gotten smaller.

April 25th, 2010

April 23rd, 2011

Dax's first birthdays brought about numerous emotions on my end....

Excitement at the milestone and upcoming adventures of having a one year old

(Here just waking up for the morning, with a big morning smile on his handsome little face)

Sadness over the loss of my sweet, immobile cuddle bug.
(At the hospital the morning after he was born)

Frustration at his unwillingness to partake in his birthday as I expected.


(Here he was more concerned with playing with wrapping paper and/or balloons to open his presents; thus, I was left with the chore, along with some help from adorable little Lilli)

And calmness when the event was over and I was able to come home and take a nap with, just like I used to.

(I've discontinued napping with him since he's been re-sleep trained and haven't wanted to jinx it; this picture is from when he was three months old....)

Of course, all things considered, the party was awesome. Dax was spoiled by so many friends and family members who love him. Sometimes, I honestly feel like he may be one of the most loved babies (toddlers) in the world. Not only does he have my biological family and Ryan's biological family creating a massive fan club for him, but all of the kids at the Goose absolutely adore him. And that is no exaggeration. Any baby that either the girls or boys play with or see is immediately deemed "Baby Dax." I have not heard a baby at the Goose named anything else since I was pregnant. In fact, while I was pregnant a group of four-year-old girls were always pregnant with their own baby Dax's (one mom even sent me a picture of her little girl stuffing pillows in her nightie to make a baby Dax.) We are truly blessed to have so many supportive people caring for our child.
The most important thing of all to me though, is the fact that my son is healthy.
He is strong.
(He is constantly moving furniture- earning him the nickname "Rambo"- is starting to actually kind of run and is beginning to master climbing...Oh joy.)

He is smart.
(Basically having mastered how to turn on all of his toys and our gadgets, babyproofing is beyond us at this point. The kid has figured out how to get into everything and does as he pleases, although he is disciplined for it.)

And he CAN be independent.
(Dax can easily go off and do his own thing, however, if he needs some love he'll run over climb into our laps or arms and suck his thumb while playing with either our ear or his. It's sweet.)

Nothing makes me more appreciative of my life than knowing that I have such a healthy and happy child.
Since his first birthday- less than a week ago- he has been talking up a storm as well. Before he would occasionally say things when he felt like it, but now the kid doesn't want to stop talking.
A couple of things he's been repeating over and over this week (to my true joy):
-"Hi!" attended with a wave/hand flap whenever he sees anyone, and I mean that literally (he knows "bye" too)
- "Whas'that?" at any point he sees, hears, or touches something or someone. It's my new favorite too. He's so curious.
- "No, no" if he doesn't like whatever you are doing; occasionally he'll exchange this for a "don't" as he pulls you away from what you are not supposed to be doing...pretty sure he got that one from me
- "Duh" for dog. His favorite thing, he gets so excited and flaps his wings like he's going to fly away whenever he sees one.
- He also claps and shouts "YAY" for nearly every accomplishment reached by himself and others, it's also the only way we can get him to look at the camera and smile.

He says more things, but not as consistently as he has been saying these this week (of course he has mastered "mama" and "dada" at this point in addition to several other basic words)

His 1 Year Check-Up is tomorrow, so I will be back on to update you on his percentiles. Not to mention with more pictures.

'Nighty-nite!

Saturday, April 23, 2011

Happy First Birthday


to the greatest little man alive!!!

I sure love him!